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Tuesday, 12 August 2014

Trapped - I


“Bleeding ulcers run in my family, we give them to each other.” 
             Lois McMaster Bujold, Borders of Infinity

We are all born with a set of relationships i.e. grandparents, parents, siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles etc. etc..We don't have any say in choosing them or in IT terminology I can say they come "by default" to us..

These are the relationships or people who decide who or what you would be in life. I really believe that a person is very lucky if he or she has the best loving, supporting and caring relatives around him or her. Because they are the ones who play a major role in uplifting and motivating you. They are with you in all your ups and downs. They become your anchor when you are going through the most turbulent times of your life.. They are on your side irrespective of situations, emotions, feelings, egos etc etc...(an excerpt straight from Hum Sath Sath Hain saga)..  
    
But what if life chooses to screw you ...and you end up in a dysfunctional equation with any of them,
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some of them, or every one of them in the family.

Well, welcome to the most painful, frustrating and never ending ordeal of your life and your existence. 

Why?.. because they know how to hurt you, where to hurt you, and when to hurt you. You are vulnerable and defenceless and they know it...to use it...

No matter how much you strategise, plan or prepare..the damage is always more fatal than the last one. You feel trapped and suffocated in an emotionless vacuum with no breakthrough..

A strenuous relationship with your father, mother or sibling leaves you emotionally impaired for life. And nothing in this world can heal or help the consequences and after effects of it.

You only learn to adjust, hide and escape from it!!

(To be continued in the next part)

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4 comments:

  1. Good one . Touched my nerve. Took me back to memory lane.

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  2. Thank you...and see you around..:-)

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  3. "you learn to adjust, hide and escape from it " ....

    that's not the end of story... you also get enlightenment ... you understand relationship ... that is what matters in life ...

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  4. Thanks P for the comment...I hope so.. it turns out the way you said...see you around..:-)

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